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By Rachel Shatto July 11, Before my current relationship, I was single for a long time, which means I've put in some pretty serious time as a third wheel. You know, the third person who hangs sometimes awkwardly out with a couple on the reg.
But that truth doesn't change the fact that solitude does happen, and when it does, it's best to turn to single folks to hear how to deal with loneliness.
These ladies on Reddit shared some truly wise insight into how to deal with loneliness when you're single — particularly when it seems like everyone you know is in a relationship. It's perfectly acceptable to ask for help. Inquire within.
I make jokes about it when it comes up to let them know I don't care. Justice for Will. But serious answer: be your best company.
If you're with two of your friends who just so happen to date, change your perspective from "I'm third-wheeling," to, "This is just a casual group-hang. That's why so many of us crave affection from family, friends and lovers.
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If you are third-wheeling, it's probably because this is a couple you are friends with. I'm probably being a wuss but I'm not risking myself like that again. It will replace your solitude with arguments, low self-esteem, and you'll end up compromising on a lot of kt you want.
Just kidding! This affection is the same as the kind you get in a romantic relationship. Recognize That Love Has Many Sources Sometimes the loneliness is upsetting, but I think to some extent, most, if not all of us, are seeking validation through relationships.
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Sometimes I might get sad thinking about how I tend to always be the single one in some friend groups Because even if you feel like you are alone, trust me: Everyone gets to this place at one point or another. It means more opportunities to go after the things you want creatively and pont. It's true tho.
Best of luck. On the real though, there's nothing quite like standing in the front of your group and imagining you're in the mall scene from Mean Girls. Sounds like a million dollar idea, let's make it happen.
It's gross. If we can get past the idea of wanting validation from others, we'll learn to enjoy our own company and naturally be okay with singlehood. So, who's going in on this with me? Is it weird that I'm low key impressed? They can't fathom that being single is comfortable, less pressure and fun. When you aren't in a relationship, you don't have to worry about whether anyone is happy besides yourself.
This is one way to make the most of your third wheel status.
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Personally, I think that keeping in mind that there are all different kinds of human connection and that you can stand to learn something from everyone you meet Lone,y keep your heart open to the world and all the love it has to offer you. By Rachel Shatto July 11, Before my current relationship, I was single for a long time, which means I've put in some pretty serious time as a third wheel.
Nothing is worse than feeling like you are the odd man out with friends.
Insert yourself into the conversation or call your couple friends out in a funny way by saying something if, "Ah, yes, I love third-wheeling. If this happens to you, speak up! If you want to see them, find a way to hang out with them that accommodates both of your schedules. I just can't put myself in a position where I feel I'm being held back.
All of a sudden, you might find that this third-wheel situation feels like less of a situation, and like more of just you hanging out with your friends. Most people have family and friends already, but lovers are harder to come by, so people tend to put them on a pedestal. Keep your chin up.
Just make sure to stop playing before you go pro. Make sure your cup is full.
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This, this is more awkward. Most people end up stepping on their partner's toes now and again.
Don't worry, you won't be third wheeling forever! These are my friends, and we have so much in common.
What does the research (scientific evidence) show us about loneliness?
See, it's funny because it's true. Who needs a date when you have beer? If you're single, you're free to help out and contribute to their family, and receive the support you're looking for. Yeah, third-wheeling hirts harder the older you get and the more married everyone else gets.
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I like to think that most of them view me the same way. The goal is to hang out with my friends while they're in a good mood.
And I Now this is some serious third-wheeling. Ouch, I've totally been here. I feel bad for whoever has to third-wheel me and my BFF. I wasn't kidding!
The woman is a single unit to me, not part of a whole. You never have to do this on your own. Sometimes it feels totally natural to hang out as a trio. Embrace The Shade My family has joked about me growing up to be a cat lady for years.